There are some days with parenting that leave you feeling unqualified, isolated and judged. Today was one of those. The day consisted of trying to herd a bolting toddler in the dentist's busy waiting room; making futile attempts to intercept limitless tantrums, and unsuccessfully trying to convince a toddler that taking a nap is not a form of tortuous punishment (seriously, I wish someone would tell me to go to sleep in the middle of the day with no hidden agenda!)
I took Rowan to the park after visiting the dentist as he was a bit apprehensive during his appointment. I'm not sure if I was looking particularly dejected, but another mum just struck up a conversation with me whilst we pushed our respective sons on the swings. It was only idle small talk but somehow it rallied me for the rest of the day. When Rowan later slid right off the slide and heavily onto his bottom (it was raining and the slide was very wet), and I was feeling guilty about not having the foresight to have prevented it, the same mum casually said that she was surprised how slippery the slide was and the same thing would have happened to her.
When you have days where you feel you don't know what you're doing, and it seems everyone else is finding it breeze, it is reassuring and encouraging when someone takes the time to support you. Sometimes all it takes is a chat about the weather with a stranger to bolster self-belief.
Tuesday, 15 September 2015
Monday, 14 September 2015
Project #7
This duvet cover and pillow slip set has been sitting around unfinished since I made project #1, my first duvet cover. I only had the poppers to sew on but it's taken 8 months to finally get around to completing it.
The material was from a stash given to me, and I was unsure what to use it for. Initially I thought about making some curtains for the office, but it is a fairly thin fabric, and to be honest it didn't really match the room. Despite the feminine pattern, I decided to make it into another duvet cover for Rowan. This has proved a good move as lately his night-time pull-ups have been leaking!
The duvet cover really needed a lot more poppers than the 3 I sewed on, but that's what was left in my sewing box so it'll do for now. The combination of delicate embroidery and heavy handed toddler probably means it won't have much longevity anyway.
The material was from a stash given to me, and I was unsure what to use it for. Initially I thought about making some curtains for the office, but it is a fairly thin fabric, and to be honest it didn't really match the room. Despite the feminine pattern, I decided to make it into another duvet cover for Rowan. This has proved a good move as lately his night-time pull-ups have been leaking!
The duvet cover really needed a lot more poppers than the 3 I sewed on, but that's what was left in my sewing box so it'll do for now. The combination of delicate embroidery and heavy handed toddler probably means it won't have much longevity anyway.
Extra bedding for a leaky toddler.
I don't iron.
Close-up of the embroidery. Not the most
boyish of fabrics but it fairly muted
Thursday, 10 September 2015
Creativity
Rowan recently figured out how to open the high cupboard in his room. I had my suspicions this was going to happen soon, but since the cupboard is fairly high up and has a stiff handle (and I'm knackered) I didn't preemptively child-proof it.
One evening, after a particularly troublesome bedtime routine where Rowan was hyper-tired and wouldn't settle, Gareth and I went up to check on him and found this:
Rowan had managed to open his cupboard and completely empty its contents (including the actual shelves). Now, this shouldn't be a problem except that we kept all the nappy changing stuff in there including Sudocrem. It was everywhere. The carpet; the walls; the toddler; furniture; toys... Fortunately, the bulk of his 'painting' was confined to the drawers which was easy to wipe clean. Overall, it could have been a lot worse (and it got worse - more on that below*). Although we now have to find somewhere for all the stuff that used to be kept in his cupboard..
In the photo above you'll notice an absence of curtains and accompanying rail. Rowan pulled it out of the wall (including wall-plugs) a few days previously and we thought it safest to remove it completely. The blackout blind is regularly pulled down, but at least we don't have to worry about random screws getting lost.
*Not long after this Rowan decided to try painting with... well, how to put this delicately? Poop. He painted with his poop. If you've never had to clean poop out of an electric socket, cable jack or Duplo bricks then I envy you! The walls, carpet, and toddler were relatively easy to clean by comparison. I didn't take any photos of that discovery. I doubt anyone would've appreciated the photographic evidence.
One evening, after a particularly troublesome bedtime routine where Rowan was hyper-tired and wouldn't settle, Gareth and I went up to check on him and found this:
Looking pleased with his masterpiece
Rowan had managed to open his cupboard and completely empty its contents (including the actual shelves). Now, this shouldn't be a problem except that we kept all the nappy changing stuff in there including Sudocrem. It was everywhere. The carpet; the walls; the toddler; furniture; toys... Fortunately, the bulk of his 'painting' was confined to the drawers which was easy to wipe clean. Overall, it could have been a lot worse (and it got worse - more on that below*). Although we now have to find somewhere for all the stuff that used to be kept in his cupboard..
In the photo above you'll notice an absence of curtains and accompanying rail. Rowan pulled it out of the wall (including wall-plugs) a few days previously and we thought it safest to remove it completely. The blackout blind is regularly pulled down, but at least we don't have to worry about random screws getting lost.
*Not long after this Rowan decided to try painting with... well, how to put this delicately? Poop. He painted with his poop. If you've never had to clean poop out of an electric socket, cable jack or Duplo bricks then I envy you! The walls, carpet, and toddler were relatively easy to clean by comparison. I didn't take any photos of that discovery. I doubt anyone would've appreciated the photographic evidence.
Sunday, 6 September 2015
The hungriest caterpillar
I found this not-so-little guy in our garden a couple of days ago. He was huge! Even the dog kept his distance.
Who ate all the peonies?
I put the dandelion here for context... Caterpillar did not
look unhappy about it.
Interesting patterning
The closest Tangent would get after an initial sniff
Project #6
I haven't sewed in over 4 months for to various reasons (decorating (so much decorating) and life being a little poop frankly) but I finally got around to digging out my sewing machine and making Rowan a new pair of trousers. Since he's been potty trained it's difficult finding trousers that actually stay up - it's surprising how much bulk a nappy provides! Making your own mean you can adjust where necessary to fit.
I used Burda 9822 (view D). Rowan measured perfectly for the smallest size, so I didn't need to adapt the pattern. Always a happy bonus! Despite sewing the correct seam allowance etc. they still ended up too big which has annoyed me, but at least he'll have something to grow into.
I really should have cropped some of these photos but haven't figured out all the editing tools on my software. If I waited to work that out too, it might have taken another four months before I posted anything.
I used Burda 9822 (view D). Rowan measured perfectly for the smallest size, so I didn't need to adapt the pattern. Always a happy bonus! Despite sewing the correct seam allowance etc. they still ended up too big which has annoyed me, but at least he'll have something to grow into.
Burda 9822. Very quick and easy to sew
The fabric I used was from an abundance of free material given to me, and although it is nice enough and easy to work with, I'll be glad when I've used it up and can go out and buy some fabric I've chosen! It's a slightly stretchy denim so should be hard wearing. Rowan picked out a ladybird motif to decorate the pocket.
Rowan's 'say cheese' face.
Drawstring waist, and big pockets.
Perfect for a toddler!
The motif Rowan picked out. I re-enforced
it with zigzag stitch so hopefully it'll last
I really should have cropped some of these photos but haven't figured out all the editing tools on my software. If I waited to work that out too, it might have taken another four months before I posted anything.
Project #5
I'm very much a beginner knitter, so when I get the urge to knit something I try to keep it straightforward. Rowan was getting desperate for some new jumpers and since I had a (major) surplus of cream 8ply wool, I thought it was a good opportunity to knit him up something.
I found a free pattern courtesy of the knit and crochet community site Ravelry. I liked the shoulder button opening as it wouldn't matter then if I made the neckband too small for Rowan's head. It was an easy pattern done in stocking stitch throughout so didn't require much concentration. However, there was a mistake in the pattern - the original photo of the completed sweater clearly showed four buttonholes, but the pattern itself only had 3. This meant that there was a bit of a flap where the neckband should join. I managed to bodge an amateur loop stitch and create a fourth button fastening to mitigate the flap, but it isn't in line with the rest of the buttons (hence why that button is an unassuming white).
I found a free pattern courtesy of the knit and crochet community site Ravelry. I liked the shoulder button opening as it wouldn't matter then if I made the neckband too small for Rowan's head. It was an easy pattern done in stocking stitch throughout so didn't require much concentration. However, there was a mistake in the pattern - the original photo of the completed sweater clearly showed four buttonholes, but the pattern itself only had 3. This meant that there was a bit of a flap where the neckband should join. I managed to bodge an amateur loop stitch and create a fourth button fastening to mitigate the flap, but it isn't in line with the rest of the buttons (hence why that button is an unassuming white).
Sunday, 15 March 2015
Mothering Sunday
I indulged in a lie-in this morning, being woken at 8:30am for breakfast and coffee in bed. Rowan threw a bunch of pretty flowers at me, and then climbed onto the bed. He chose my breakfast, which was ably conveyed by Gareth. So I 'enjoyed' a bowl of Cookie Crunch cereal (a treat Gareth let Rowan put in the shopping trolley when I wasn't looking) and conducted some impressive acrobatics to drink my coffee without scalding the toddler! It was a lovely* surprise and Rowan looked very pleased with his efforts. As he should be. Gareth told me that he had tried to persuade Rowan that maybe I'd prefer poached eggs on toast, but Rowan was adamant that I was having Cookie Crunch!
We made a last minute decision to drive down to Plymouth to visit our Mums, so had a minor rush to load the car and go. Rowan promptly fell asleep, so he was fairly refreshed by the time we got there (usually he waits until we are ten minutes away from anywhere we are going, then falls asleep).
Fortunately, Rowan's great grandmothers were visiting my Mother-in-law (Lynn) so he got to see them too.
We then went to my parents' house and spent a couple of hours chatting, and trying to prevent Rowan trashing their home (two dog bowls were the total causalities this visit). Rowan had his dinner, and was kept quiet with a bag of crisps - we generally limit them at home, so on the rare occasions he has access to a whole bag he remains silent in case someone realises and takes them away.
Rowan adores dogs, but doesn't quite understand that not all dogs adore him! The expression on Molly's face (below) pretty much sums up their relationship at present.
I felt bad that we didn't stay very long, but it was a spur of the moment decision. Hopefully we can catch up again soon!
* I mistyped and wrote 'lively' at first. Either word works!
We made a last minute decision to drive down to Plymouth to visit our Mums, so had a minor rush to load the car and go. Rowan promptly fell asleep, so he was fairly refreshed by the time we got there (usually he waits until we are ten minutes away from anywhere we are going, then falls asleep).
Fortunately, Rowan's great grandmothers were visiting my Mother-in-law (Lynn) so he got to see them too.
Nanny Gwen, Grandma and Great-Grandma Barbara
Four generations
We had a lovely lunch with everyone, and
then released Rowan into the garden to let out some pent up energy. He
was particularly fond of filling the watering can up and emptying it
over the grass.
We then went to my parents' house and spent a couple of hours chatting, and trying to prevent Rowan trashing their home (two dog bowls were the total causalities this visit). Rowan had his dinner, and was kept quiet with a bag of crisps - we generally limit them at home, so on the rare occasions he has access to a whole bag he remains silent in case someone realises and takes them away.
Rowan adores dogs, but doesn't quite understand that not all dogs adore him! The expression on Molly's face (below) pretty much sums up their relationship at present.
"Go home, ugly bald puppy"
The handsome, photogenic Flash
Nanny and Grandad. This was the best photo I could get at
this point. Rowan was very tired, and not going to
comply for a photo shoot!
* I mistyped and wrote 'lively' at first. Either word works!
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