Sunday, 29 November 2009
End point
Wednesday, 25 November 2009
When enough is enough
The final straw came when we attempted to turn the heating on with no luck for 20mins. The heating has proven tempermental before in that once you turn it on, it is pretty much guaranteed to turn itself off again within an hour. As it's now November and getting cold, it ain't good! Especially as the heating unit is located in the bedbug-ridden dining room, so you have to strip off in the cold before even entering the room in case one of the blighters hitch-hike's its way to other rooms.
So, after waiting 2 months for the shower to finally get fixed; 5 months of waiting for the bathroom window to get fixed (still waiting!); co-existing with bedbugs that were already resident in the property before we were; the heating dying and the general state of neglect - although the latter we were happy to ingnore as tht's why the rent was so low - we have decided that enough is enough. It's even worth paying the letting agent administration fees again to get out of this house.
I am a concerned about moving during Gareth's Masters, but he has said that he finds it hard studying here anyway due to the atmosphere etc.
Tonight we are going to look at a house about 10mins drive from this one. I expect it will be smaller, but if it means that we will not be paranoid about every black speck of dust, it's worth it!
Thursday, 19 November 2009
AAAARRRGGGG!!!!!!!!
I'm just so low right now. I feel trapped here because we can't really move as we'd risk taking the problem with us and then it would be our financial concern to sort it. Plus, the hassle and cost of moving midway through Gareth's Masters is hardly fair. It's makes decisions regarding our future difficult too; I'm considering going into accountancy, but with all the problems with the house I barely have the motivation to even do basic internet research to find out if it's something I'm interested in (or have the capabilities to do).
I know I shouldn't take life so personally - the bedbugs were just bad luck and not a personal slight on me as an individual, but sometimes you just want to scream for a break!
Thursday, 12 November 2009
Update
There hasn't really been much going, hence the lack of blogging material! Tales of life working in a bank does not make for a gripping read.
Tangent has been going to the dog club up here for about 6 weeks now and he loves it! I'm quite relieved that he enjoys training as I was starting to wonder if he would take to the Obedience side of things or not. Turns out he was just a bit lazy; with the motivator of livercake and not being fed his meal till after training, that no longer poses an issue!
I'm just recovering from a stinking cold. Gareth would be the first to tell you that I don't do ill very well - I'm not ill very often, and this is the first cold I've had in about a year. I admit, I do not bear illness with grace! I can get pretty stroppy about the mildest of things. Although the irritation of not being able to run because of it is very genuine. It's been about 5 weeks since my last run, and I'm desparate to go running soon, but not keen to see how much fitness I've lost!
Tuesday, 27 October 2009
Oops
I managed to grade the rest of his hair to merge with the 0, but the longest grade he now had was 1. In my defense, I tend to think people are as paranoid as me and make sure things like grade guards are on before trustingly handing over the unit to a distracted and somewhat dippy wife.
I don't think I did a bad job in rectifying it; but I don't reckon the skinhead bovver boy was quite the impression he wanted to make on his first day!
Stuff
Convergence of guilt
Monday, 19 October 2009
The world of work
We now have Draco (our snake) back with us, so now we are all back together!
My job is going ok. I was a bit dillusioned at first as no one really seemed to know where to put me for the first week and I spent the majority of my time either watching other people work or being trained on 4 different things simultaneously. The company has undergone a lot of changes recently, so there was an element of dischord still about. Things seem to be calming down though, and this week I at least have access to my own workstation!
Monday, 21 September 2009
Job!
I can't believe just how much of a relief it is to have got a job.
Thursday, 17 September 2009
Job update!
Tuesday, 15 September 2009
Interview update
The assessment went ok too. It consisted of an 8 minute literacy test where you had to identify spelling/grammar mistakes in a passage of text. Rather embarassingly, I only found 12 of the 15 mistakes - my A'Level tutor would not be impressed! There was also an 18 minute numeracy test based on using a variety of tables of data to ascertain the information you needed. I was doing fine until ratios were brought into the picture. I've never been a fan of ratios! As such, I got 15 out 20 for the test. Oh dear. Oh well, it was enough to pass the assessment so I have to go back again on Saturday for the second part of the process.
Travelling 2 hours a day could prove tiresome, but I with the recession I think I need to be prepared to travel for a job.
Sunday, 13 September 2009
Interview and bedbug update
I have started to sieve through the dining room and boy, is that job going to take awhile! I went through all the cross stitch charts sheets by sheet to check for bedbugs then called it a day as I was starting to go cross-eyed! If you are familiar with cross stitch charts then you'll understand how the symbols can be mistaken for small bugs and thus why it was such a mammoth task. I have a lot of charts. I'm going to attack the room again today and start checking my scrap book stuff.
Sketches
Anyway, I've started drawing again and thought I would post some of my sketches. I'm quite aware they aren't particulary good, but after such a gap I wouldn't expect my skills to have improved! Random dragonfly and a non-specific wading bird! For some reason there is a very snitch-like object too!
I have never been very good at drawing people, I always preferred animals - not surprising I did a zoology degree then really! However, I was pleased with this guy!
Ok, anatomically not very well drawn, but practice makes perfect - or at least passable!
Thursday, 10 September 2009
Dog club
I was quite impressed. It was a fairly informal, soical class and everyone was really nice. The class is also small (maximum of 8 dogs) which is ideal! I was trying to bear in mind that it was a social club, not an obedience club though, as I'm more used to an obedience environment for dog clubs!
I reckon I'll Tangent next week and get him going regulary. He certainly needs practice with ignoring dogs when he is being trained!
Tuesday, 8 September 2009
Rambling
Gareth's cousin's wedding was really nice too. They looked so happy! It was also good seeing the rest of Gareth's family, as we don't really see a lot of them. I also did my first night motorway drive too. It was a bit daunting at first, and I'm glad it was only half an hour of actual motorway, but I'm glad I've finally got around to doing it before I built it up into a major issue!
The next day, we took the dogs to Leigh woods where I managed to hit the 5 mile target for my running (my longest run has only been about 4 miles before now). I was pretty pleased, and Tangent was exhausted by the end! He didn't even want to play in the evening which is a rarity for him.
Time for new shoes?
Friday, 4 September 2009
Level up!
If you get more than 300 then it states you are at risk of serious health issues. Mine came out at 443. Hmm. I think more candle-lit baths and less double-bagging is in order! Oh yes, and 'dealing with bedbug infestation' wasn't even on the list! Problem is, I'm finding it difficult stopping. I can't seem to just stop, and when I do (i.e. the craft session - see previous post) it doesn't seem to work out. I know it's probably not healthy to be this wound up all the time, but behaviours can be hard habits to break.
UFC
Creative block
Instead of a relaxing afternoon crafting, I spent the next two hours emptying all the remaining boxes and found another live bedbug in a separate box. We have a lot of stuff to throw away in that room that we aren't prepared to take chances with (i.e. seat cushions etc.). I'm kinda gutted as I've being missing doing crafts and I still can't get my hands on any of it! The scrapbook/cardmaking things will have to stay in there until I can go through them one by one to make sure they are ok. I'm a bit annoyed by this as I wanted to make a wedding card for Gareth's cousin and his fiancee but we have had to buy one instead. I've also got to freeze all my cross stitich stuff for three weeks (when there's room in the freezer!) as the aida could harbour bedbug eggs.
I do have access to a sketchbook and pencils, so at least I can still be creative to some extent!
Blackberry picking photos
Monday, 31 August 2009
Ikea!
We bought three flatpack cases and I was surprised at how easily they went together. Normally you expect something to be either lopsided or flimsy, but I was pleasantly surprised!
The Bristol Ikea is absolutely huge though! We got lost for 20 minutes and ended up walking in circles until we orientated ourselves on the map they provide you when you enter.
Relaxing Sunday
That evening, I made an apple and blackberry crunchy crumble (the crumble had muslei in it!) using the blackberries we'd picked on Wednesday when the third, and hopefully final, fumigation was conducted. Pictures of our blackberry forage are to follow!
Wednesday, 26 August 2009
Willow's bad day
Interivew?
This job (which incidently is with a 'recession-proof' company) is 100% commission based with very strange hours for sales (12:00 to 21:15 Monday to Friday and 10:30 to 17:30 on Saturdays). Apparently this is train you up to managerial material in record-time. 8 months, in fact. Hmm. Add into this it's a self-employed position and all-in-all it seems far too dodgy. Maybe I am being cynical, but I have turned down this second interview as I can't shift the feeling that something just isn't right about it.
Tuesday, 25 August 2009
Kitchen lament
Sunday, 23 August 2009
RIP!
Friday, 21 August 2009
Leigh Woods
This doesn't even begin to show how vast this place is! It also looks quite easy to get lost.
Tangent and Willow in a definately not posed shot.
I think Gareth may be subtley telling me he's had enough of me taking photos.
Bedbugs: Warning, contains images some may find offensive!
More bedbug poo spots.
Unfortunately this image isn't too clear, but this is after we pulled the carpet back from the wall and revealed thousands of cast shells, eggs, dead bedbugs and of, course, poo!
Gareth modelling our new range of footwear for bedbug-proofing. Yes, it is a black bag tied around his feet, and yes, that is all we wore when we were bagging up everything before the fumigator arrived. Luckily we finished before he arrived. That could have been awkward.
Monday, 17 August 2009
Home!
I'm in a much better frame of mind after our break and feel that although things haven't really gone as smoothly as we'd have liked, at least our lives are moving forward!
I phoned the company I had the interview with today for feedback on my perfomance as I assumed they'd made a decision and it turns out they are still deliberating! The recruitment officer is going to find out more details from the interview panel and get back to me. So, fingers' crossed, it may not be out of my sights yet! I really hope I have a chance at this job as I think I would really enjoy the role - it's a publishing administrator role for a scientific publication.
Gareth and I have decided to reintroduce items back into our room very gradually. As our clothes are being checked and washed for bugs we're going to put some back into our drawers so we can actually find clean socks and pants without having a mini game of 'Deal-or-no-Deal' with all the black bags!
The shower has also been fixed by the landlord whilst we were away, and boy, does it make a difference being able to just jump into the shower rather than wait an hour for the boost for hot water, spend 20 mins running the bath then feeling that you should spend at least 30mins soaking to make it worth all the effort!
Friday, 14 August 2009
Change of name!
1st year anniversary!
We had a fairly lazy morning until we realised the dogs had no food. After we got back from the pet shop, we let the parrots out for a while before heading into town to see Harry Potter 6. We had a couple of Mojito's in the adjoining bar before the film started. It was the first time I'd had a Mojito and was impressed! Very refreshing!
I enjoyed the film, as it kept the same dark feel as the book had, but I think they tried to fit too much into one film considering the size of the book. It's worth a watch though! Afterwards, we had intended to watch the fireworks but decided to grab something to eat instead. Considering the amount of popcorn we'd eaten we weren't up for anything huge, so after a couple of drinks in another pub (you can probably sense a theme here!) we went to La Tasca for tapas.
Ironically, having decided against the fireworks, we still got caught up in the crowds heading home! I'm sure it is more popular than it has been in previous years! We decided that getting the bus would probably be equated to a living hell due to the size of the crowds at the stop so got a cab back. We watched some grotty TV whilst the dogs had their food and digested a bit before heading to bed. In short, a fantastic 1st anniversary!
Despite how crappy the year has been for us, having my loving husband has made it so much more bearable!
don't ditch the car!
I don't think I answered some of the questions as well as I could of though. The question part of the interview was an hour long, so to be honest I was getting a little bored by that point! I then had a practical test to perform was consisted of a typing speed test and answering some scenario questions. I actually quite enjoyed that, but whether my answers were what they were looking for I still don't know. They want whoever is successful to start on Monday, and as it's Friday I'm not too keen on my chances! I will still contact the company and ask for feedback on my performance.
The journey back was a bit of a nightmare. I missed my booked train by one minute through a combination of poor city signing and a bad sense of direction. The next train was an hour later but that was running 45 minutes late. I eventually got into Plymouth at 19:40 and was able to make it to the bus stop in time to see the bus drive past (despite my running toward it in an obvious 'wait for me' fashion). I'm incredibly reluctant to spend money on taxis, so I started to walk part of the way back home until the next bus (also an hour later) was due. I got home at 21:30 so the day was pretty tiring!
I doubt people will be leaving their cars home in favour of public transport until it becomes much more reliable.
Sunday, 9 August 2009
On the need for organisation
Saturday, 8 August 2009
Facelift
RJ
My parents bought a 12 week old African Grey parrot today. They used to own one a few years back but he died inexplicably aged 5 years. They hadn't planned on ever getting another one, but just bonded with him in the shop! They have named him RJ and he is pretty needy at the moment. He adores attention and sulks if he isn't hugged! He's currently settling in as he has had a lot to cope with recently - he only arrived in the shop three days ago. Again, I will upload some photo's asap.
Thursday, 6 August 2009
Second pest control visit
It took some preparation as I had to bath the dogs just in case they were stowing any unwanted passengers, check all the items I was bringing down with me for eggs or bugs and double bag the lot. Gareth and I also bought a spare set of clothes which had remained in the car away from the house to change into when we arrived.
We are getting pretty fed up with the bugs to say the least. I even found one crawling on my trousers when I was sat on the floor in the front room. It must have been pretty desparate for blood though as it is very unusual to find bed bugs questing in the light when their host is still awake! It makes you feel quite grotty to think of all these bugs everywhere. Especially as we have to run baths at the moment because the shower doesn't work and hasn't done since we moved in. We are getting to the limit of how much we are prepared to put up with.
We have had to double bag everything we didn't want to get ruined by the liquid pesticide. As the dining room was the worst room we decided not to take any chances of transferring any out of there so went through the room stark naked except for black sacks tied around our feet which we threw away after. Despite the stress this whole escapade has been, I can't help but see the funny side at times!
However, I'm hoping our luck may be changing as I have passed a stage of interview for a job and am waiting for the second stage, and also have another job interview on Monday. Good news, but a bit of a pain as I will have to travel back to Bristol for it and back to Plymouth again for the dogs. Still, I'd rather go through all that and possibly get a job!
Sunday, 2 August 2009
Busy!
Today we continued double-bagging all our possessions after declaring them bug-free. I was rather upset to find that they had had the audacity to lay eggs in two of my soft toys (only the sentimental no-way-to-replace-them ones, so not too big a deal) and despite neither of us have been bitten for about a week and the eggs were cases so not live, I've still decided to freeze them all for two weeks just in case. I feel this is a good compromise between just throwing out everything in a paranoid state of mind, and being too complacent about it.
I also soaked some back packs in nigh-on boiling water that were too big to fit in the washing machine and a couple of dead adults floated out. I think the pesticide from the original pest control visit is probably what killed them though. These little bastards can survive a surprising amount of heat, but I tried going for shock tactics and plunged the bags in so they had no chance of gradually getting used to the heat.
The battle continues. It's still too early to see who is winning. We are still in the cautiously circling each other stage, carefully sizing each other up.
Tuesday, 28 July 2009
More on bedbugs
Bugged
The dining room must have been the original nest source and it confirms our suspicions that the previous tenents were sub-letting and using the living room and dining room as bedrooms. It certainly confirms that we did not bring them to the house due to the sheer number and state of decay of the dead ones.
Oh yes, the washing machine is leaking water too, and as I have to wash absolutely everything we own on as high a temperature as the garment/backpack etc. can cope with, this is not welcome news.
We also found out that our letting agent instructed pest control to do the whole house, what we got was half a ruddy room. He isn't impressed either!
Grrrr!!!!
Saturday, 18 July 2009
Checking in. Again.
I'm just very busy with helping tidy and clean the house - there is a decent amount of mould growing in the bathroom; there are some stains I'd rather not think about cemented to the bottom of the toilet bowl (seriously, did the last tennents do any housework?)
We have also found out we have bedbugs which must have been in the curtains/carpets before we moved in as our bed and mattress is brand new, and we can't think of any other way we could have brought them in. So, the fumigators are arriving on Tuesday and we'll be recommencing the cleaning on Wednesday! Grr! I apprieciate moving house is stressful, but come on!
Monday, 22 June 2009
Change of plans?
Thursday, 18 June 2009
5 days!
I'm very excited about moving, although I am a little worried about the job situation - i.e. I won't have one. However, as this has been a tough time and I haven't had a break for what seems like an age I've still decided to take a couple of weeks off before starting to look for work again.
In theory, we should have internet access sorted by the end of the month. However, knowing what some telephone providers can be like I'm not sure when I will be able to blog again.
Tuesday, 9 June 2009
Saltram Park 5km
Moving!
I've since moved back into my parents whilst I work my notice at work. I'll be heading up to Bristol in about two and a half weeks. It gives me time to get the dogs rules back a bit as they have got away with rather a lot more than they do with us!
Thursday, 4 June 2009
Maelstrom!
The removal company is arriving on Monday and then my Mum can have her sewing room back which she sacrificed for storing out stuff!
Wednesday, 3 June 2009
On the move... eventually
I'll be heading up about three weeks after Gareth whilst I work my notice, then I'll come up with the dogs. That way they won't have to cope with unpacking etc. as well as a new environment to get used to.
At least life seems to be shifting out of this rut and moving forward finally!
Tuesday, 19 May 2009
Monday, 27 April 2009
Sad news
Still seems a little unreal right now.
Sunday, 19 April 2009
Update!
Willow collapsing after her run!
Friday, 6 March 2009
Quick! Photos (finally)
This is the 'Towel Cake' my sister
constructed for part of our wedding
present - cool isn't it!?
Molly and Glyn looking unimpressed at being
kept downstairs.
Testing times
Once again, sorry about the irregular postings, I have been incredibly tired recently. I think this is because since Gareth passed his driving test we have been out a lot more with the dogs and generally out and about! This does mean that there should be more photo's soon as I actually have something to show!
Friday, 27 February 2009
Extraction
I drove to work yesterday under the guidance of Gareth's Mum's husband. I was particualry nervous as I hadn't driven in a city for over 5 years, but it was fine. I think I am concerned about my driving now as I remember when I was driving a lot better, but with practise I should get back to where I was - and pass this time!
Tuesday, 24 February 2009
Princetown - Nun's cross
The walk took us about 1.5hrs and Gareth and I shared a portion of chips at Princetown Police Station Cafe before handing the mud-magnets back to Mum and Dad.
Gareth is certainly spoiling me with all these walks with the dogs and outings!
Once again, this in another photo-less post as the batteries in my camera completely died after taking one photo of Gareth which I don't even know it took as the camera died before I could preview it. My blog is destined to a bland, vacuous block of text for eternity!
Cheddar Gorge
We arrived at Cribb's Causeway (Mall) in good time and meandered around a bit. Those that know us probably know that we are not exactly reknowned for our love of shopping. So after grabbing some lunch we picked somewhere more up our street to go to - Cheddar Gorge!
The drive there was a little convoluted but well signposted.
Instead of exploring the caves for a cost of £16 each, yes EACH! We decided to do the three mile trek above ground around the caves. this still cost £4.50 each, but this was for a season pass.
It was a really nice walk, and quite gruelling in places as it was mostly uphill. Unfortunately I don't have any photo's as this was a rather spontaneous trip, and I didn't see the point in bringing the camera to a Mall!
Cheddar Gorge is also home to some wild goats which frankly didn't look too unlike domestic goats, if a little more scraggy and stocky!
Tuesday, 10 February 2009
Plod
I've been shown how to do manouevers in a lot more simpler way than I was orginally taught which should make life so much easier! Although I am finding it a bit confusing remembering the new methods simultaneously! Still, with practise I'm sure I will be fine.
I have finally been given a date for my contract to start with Royal Mail, so I look forward to more money coming in soon. It's still not really enough to move us out of my Mother-in-law's, but once Gareth has find work we should hopefully be back living with our dogs in no time. Gareth has also got two weeks work experience at a local accounts firm soon, so that should help with finding a job too. Likewise, he has a driving test next week which will help his employability too.
In the meantime, life is progressing at its usual pace and I'm spending most of my time cross-stitching a birth sampler for sister's third child (due in July). It's not quite as impressive as the ones I've sewn for her first two, and if they have four it may be reduced a keyring-fob sized design!
Friday, 6 February 2009
Driving
Wednesday, 4 February 2009
Update
I have also found out that my Dad is allergic to Glyn. He comes up in a rash and generally feeling like crap after touching him. I think Dad is probably allergic to Willow too, but as their fur is so different (Glyn has coarse, thick fur and Willow has fine fur. Molly, being a Yorkie has hair not fur). So the necessity to get better jobs and find somewhere to live is certainly increasing.
On the job front, still no news as to when and if my job will be made permanent, so I'm currently stuck on part-time hours at a lower wage than my contract counter-parts. I have sent off some applications for laboratory assistant work and one for a library assistant post and am waiting to hear back from them. Unfortunately, now is not the best time to be looking for work with the current economic climate being less than depressed.
Friday, 23 January 2009
Christmas II update
Willow and Glyn have very different approaches to dealing with toddlers. Willow tries to pretend they don't exist unless they are carrying either food or toys, whereas Glyn (who we are fostering for a bit longer) seems to be very intrigued by them! I think the different behaviour and noises that children make interests him. He is very patient and allows Lily (my niece who is 2 1/2) to grab his tail or ears without objection. I am quite amazed as he is also alot more gentle around them, and as he is a very engertic 2yr old dog normally, the difference is notable. Willow is far less tolerant, which is probably a combination of her age (9 in February) and general natural grumpiness!
Saturday, 17 January 2009
Christmas II
Tuesday, 13 January 2009
Moment of insanity
Monday, 12 January 2009
Rant
I had written a reasonably long post which between writing and publishing has just been wiped!!!
And I really can't be arsed to write it again. You can assume it was as witty and well-written as always.
Tuesday, 6 January 2009
Running
Monday, 5 January 2009
Glyn
Friday, 2 January 2009
Christmas was good, my husband and I spent the morning with his parents and grandparetns and we headed over to my parents in the afternoon. It was very chilled and just what we needed!
Gareth and I spent New Year's Eve together on our own as we haven't had much time together recently so it was nice just relaxing together watching grot TV! Although I paid for it the next day was a rather horrendous hangover. I woke up yesterday at 2pm feeling somewhat delicate and spent the day making sure I was never more than 8' away from a bathroom. Still, it was all self-induced so I wasn't too sympathetic with myself - except by 10pm when I was pretty miserable and felt that I would have the hangover forever! Today, however I feel absolutely fine and have once again sworn never to drink that much again!
I'm hoping 2009 will be a good year for us. I've been kept on with my temp job for another month, although I'm losing hope that it will become permanent (interviews are next Wed, Thur and Fri and I've yet to hear anything). I've decided to trial being more optimistic this year.
Happy New Year to you all!